Relapses and Triggers

A relapse is when I act out the addiction.  A trigger is something that starts me down the path toward a relapse.  Before I got into recovery, relapses and triggers were opportunities for me to beat myself up and hate myself.  When I have a recovery program in place, relapses and triggers become learning opportunities.  The main things ask of myself or others after a relapse or a big trigger are:

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Boundaries

Boundaries are like fences at the top of the cliff or like a cast around a broken arm.  They keep me away from dangerous situations so I can heal by working the steps and recovery in a safe place. Boundaries and walls are used to protect something that’s precious. Sometimes I had trouble setting boundaries for myself because I didn’t think I had value.

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